Last friday nite, one of my best friends Dad died suddenly after a short illness.

   And it realy set me to thinking about the relationship that i have with my father, or lack there of... I guess i could come up with 100 reasons why we don't get along but it realy just boils down to pride. mostly we both think were right and nether of us is willing to say that were sorry .. It is a pretty sad state of affairs.

   and one that i must attend to .

So,It's a new year .Why does everyone want to make resolutions?

Lake of focus and concentration? Are they realy so unhappy  that they need to change the way they look, think and act?

I mean i'm all for self improvement,and a constant barrage of new info and challenges can only stretch and help you grow as a person. but why on New years day?

It occurs to me that when you try to change too much at one time that you are setting yourrself up for failure. How about monthly goals?You know, run 3 days a week , save a $ 100.,don't watch T.V. 1 day a week and  read instead or better yet talk to someone that you hav'nt heard from in while, and tell them how you feel about them.While it's still called today.

Anyho... thats enough of that . Thanks for visiting The Big Harmon Project and Y'al come back now , Ya hear?

I'm just doing this so I can stop missing important calls while on line.